tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3737336609042571981.post3189978053825144208..comments2023-03-27T02:16:34.803-07:00Comments on Back Off I'm Starving: AngerMorganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09594251545216490423noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3737336609042571981.post-43367785318873524022010-05-14T19:32:28.560-07:002010-05-14T19:32:28.560-07:00yeah.
So maybe you could sit down with your husban...yeah.<br />So maybe you could sit down with your husband and talk about a deadline. Because Now there is one.<br />July.<br />If he doesn't get moved up...then you need to talk to him about you maybe getting a job..or him getting a job with a set schudule and then telling him that living this way isn't the way you want to go on anymore. that you would rather live in an apartment...or rent a house that was YOURS. That it is IMPORTANT to you..you feel like your life is on hold and you want to move forward.<br />The worst kind of anger is the kind you can't do anything about...<br />I was angry for years that my husband was leaving for months at a time...or that we would get settled and have to move...even though I knew he was doing his best and there was no choice and I had made choices, like marry someone in thea rmy etc.<br /> For a long time I thought I was depressed...and then when I finally had a few days to think...I realized that I was PISSED...mostly at me, some at him, some at my childhood...I did the same thing..<br />Well he is trying, well I did choose this, well give it some time.<br />There comes a point when you have to make your wants and needs very clear. He may not even know how much you want your own place...tell him by september or some other such deadline. We all need to feel in control of our lives.<br />Good on you for getting some of this out. Sometimes just writing it down can help clear out the cobwebs.Christinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13708815560712267698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3737336609042571981.post-6965328754581596732010-05-14T11:49:34.671-07:002010-05-14T11:49:34.671-07:00Sounds like you needed to get some of that out. A...Sounds like you needed to get some of that out. And WOW, that is a lot to be dealing with. Throw in the stress eating and I can see how it would all feel overwhelming. I think I might be a little angry too. However you choose to do it, publicly or privately, keep processing those emotions. And hang in there.Lucashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13128442364616488882noreply@blogger.com